Arrange the first meeting with the minister or registrar
For a civil ceremony, book the registrar and register office/civil venue
Set the wedding budget
Ask parents if they would like to contribute
Choose your best man, bridesmaids and other attendants
Decide on the number of guests and draw up a potential guest list
Visit possible venues
Post 'save the date' cards
Discuss menu options with possible caterers and get estimates for the food and drink
Make all reception bookings
Start looking for your wedding dress and attendants' outfits
Book your photographer and videographer
Arrange wedding insurance
Three-six months before
Arrange a second meeting with your minister to discuss the ceremony and agree a date for publication of the banns. If the ceremony is to be in a church other than the Church or England, notice of the marriage must be given to the local superintendent registrar
Choose the hymns, music and readings for the ceremony
Order the stationery
Book the musicians for the reception
Choose a florist and have an initial meeting about the flowers
Order the wedding cake
Book the wedding transport
Arrange dress fittings and shop for bridesmaids' dresses and accessories
Book a first night hotel
Book your honeymoon
Check passports are valid and arrange any inoculations/medication
Choose your wedding rings
Organise your gift list
Two months before
Finalise your order of service and order the printed versions
Post invitations with gift list details
Start a pre-wedding beauty regime
Buy lingerie and other accessories
Check the groom and best man have organised their outfits
Choose presents for all your attendants
One month before
Book hairdresser and make-up for the morning of the wedding
Make sure everyone involved knows what is happening and when
Write to banks and other official bodies if you are changing your name
Two weeks before
Confirm timings with all suppliers in writing
Try on your wedding outfit and practise walking in your shoes
Confirm guest numbers and draw up a seating plan
Order currency and travellers' cheques for the honeymoon
Enjoy your hen night - and get your groom to hold his stag night
One week before
Arrange a rehearsal of the ceremony, if required
Make a list of must-take shots for the photographer
Make a play list for the DJ, including favourites and anything you hate!
Check the groom, best man and your dad are all preparing a speech
Think about making a bride's speech
The day before
Help to decorate the reception venue, if necessary
Arrange for the cake to be delivered to the reception venue
Pack for the honeymoon and have the cases sent to the reception venue